In my favorite joke of all time, Steve Martin delivers a very detailed buildup of sprinkler terms to what he believes is a group in the audience from a “plumber’s convention”. In the culminating delivery of the “punch line” of the joke, no one in the audience laughs; the real punchline is then delivered by the comedian looking confused and, after a worried pause, asking the stage manager “where those plumbers supposed to be here tonight, or tomorrow night?” The audience then erupts in laughter at the idea that the joke failed because he simply just didn’t deliver it on the correct night.
We can learn a lot when we learn to frame failure, struggle, and frustration in a neutral or even humorous way. The humor in the above scenario is the non-humor in the joke. No one understands what the details are in the joke, so no one laughs; the laughing that finally does erupt is from the humor that the joke just failed so amazingly. There is such wisdom in the ability to learn from our mistakes, our shortcomings, and our struggles when we can learn to be fully present, non-judgmental, and embracing of our ability to buy generic viagra LIGHTEN UP on ourselves and other people.
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4. Reflection enhances learning! Research suggests the critical piece of structured fun-failure activities is in the debrief and reflection; carefully modeling and guiding participants through a process that can be, let’s be honest, REALLY scary in a social setting, is the critical piece that takes self-awareness, neutrality, acceptance, joy, and an ability to play host to the discomfort that may arise. The real trick- the alchemy- is when we learn to transform the experience of failure from avoidance to acceptance, then info fun and learning!
So play, focus, and lighten up to the joy of learning from failure!